Don't Lend to Anyone and Use Free Medicine: Financial Rules of a Girl with an Income of 7,000 Rubles
Maria separated from her parents at 15, learned to survive on pasta with '15-in-1' seasoning, and once spent her entire scholarship in just three days. Now she's 28, she works in advertising, earns 6-7 thousand rubles a month, and is building a safety net. «I do everything to ensure my income grows every year,» the girl told Onliner.
«At 18, I invented a system and still use it today»
— At 14, I didn't even know how much bread cost. But by 15, I had to completely manage my own budget — from buying trousers to restocking tea supplies — it just happened that because of my studies, I left my parents early.
First, my older brother and I lived together for a while. He taught me how to make pancakes, cook soup, and also how to put money on my phone and monitor utility meters. A little later, he left, and I was alone. My parents gave me a certain amount, but they didn't control my spending at all.

Of course, at first I spent a lot on sweets and crisps, bought everything that was once restricted in the family (and rightly so!). Sometimes, by the end of the week, I didn't have enough — I survived on pasta, saved only by the '15-in-1' seasoning. I lived in this rhythm roughly until university. During summer holidays, I worked part-time in a shop. And with my first earnings, I bought dresses, concert tickets, decent cosmetics.
I lived without precise planning until about 18. But one day, after simply spending my entire scholarship in three days, I started to think. I felt sorry for the wasted money. At that moment, I devised a system that I still use today.
It's very simple — the entire budget is allocated for the month. There are three main categories:
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mandatory expenses (non-food) — utility payments, phone, installments;
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food and small pleasures — for example, going for brunch or a cinema ticket (now it's 35 rubles a day);
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small and big desires — a new dress, holiday tickets, massage.
And when I allocate the main categories at the beginning of the month, I always have a little left over, about 5-10% of the total amount. I immediately put this money aside in foreign currency. This is how my safety net is formed.
In 10 years, I've dipped into it twice: when I was jobless and when I had to pay a large fine. For me, this amount is sacrosanct. Now there's a little over 6,000 dollars in my piggy bank.
Twice in my life, I was unemployed. In such moments, I mobilized, reduced food expenses, completely removed the 'big and small desires' category, cooked soups, and sorted through my wardrobe. And I tried not to be idle — I immediately looked for part-time work.
From experience, I can say that such situations really activate the brain and communication skills, removing all fears. I simply went and negotiated for things I might have been too shy to ask for before.
I do everything to ensure my income grows every year. I work full-time, plus always one or two side jobs. I rent out my grandmother's apartment. And if in 2018 I earned about 300 dollars a month (half of which went to pay for a room), now about 6-7 thousand rubles come to my card each month.
Where the money goes
I don't rent an apartment; I live with my boyfriend in his one-room apartment. Expenses are approximately as follows.
| Expense Item | Amount |
| Utilities, phone, subscriptions, travel pass | 300 rubles |
| Manicure, pedicure, cosmetologist, massage, cosmetics | 500 rubles |
| Sport (pool with coach and yoga) | 350 rubles |
| Food at home and in cafes, small expenses | 1400—1500 rubles |
| Travel within Belarus and abroad (spending/saving) | 1200—1500 rubles |
| Museums, exhibitions, theaters, cinema | 100 rubles |
| New clothes and home items | 600 rubles |
| Gifts and help for loved ones | 150 rubles |
| Piggy bank | 1000—1400 rubles |
Over these 10 years, I've developed several rules based on my own experience:
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work well and rest well;
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not to depend on a single source of income;
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even if the income is very small, save at least 20-30 dollars;
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not to lend money to anyone and not to apologize for it;
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not to save on health — no cheap pasta and synthetic socks;
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roughly plan the menu for the week and go to the store with a list;
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cook at home, but sometimes don't deny yourself a cup of coffee and an overpriced croissant;
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sort through your wardrobe once a season, buy genuine leather shoes and quality durable items;
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ride a bike from March to November, call a taxi only in the most extreme case;
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go to the district library for books, not bookstores;
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use free medicine — this includes tests, check-ups, and ultrasounds;
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find your ideal care products — and buy them in large packages;
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help loved ones from surplus — make mom happy, give a little money to godchildren, buy a gift for my boyfriend when I truly have extra money.

Thanks to this approach, by the age of 28, I have visited 22 countries, bought all the necessary equipment, including a good smartphone and quality headphones, and built a safety net.

I gradually help my parents and prepare for new challenges: together with my boyfriend, we dream of a bigger apartment and start talking about children.
I really want to visit expensive countries like the USA, Australia, the Netherlands. I hope all goals will be achieved in time.
Comments
За 7000 рублёў праблем у краіне яна не бачыць.